Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Mama Marian

Mama Marian died this morning at 11:25am. She is, and will forever be, so loved and so terribly missed.

19 comments:

  1. My heart goes out to you today. Your mom was an amazing woman who's laugh I will miss dearly. I remember many afternoons at your house throught my childhood and all the good times since.

    Remember to celebrate her life...she wouldn't have wanted it any other way.

    Much love,

    Wade and Anja

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  2. My heart goes out to you and your family, I worked with your mother and had the pleasure of meeting one of the most kindest, funniest women thus far. My condolences go out to your family. May god bless.

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  3. Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family. She will truly be missed but never forgotten. Love, Clark, Kelly & Madison

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  4. Your mom was one of the bravest women I've ever known, and I told her that back in the summer. She will be missed by so many people who cared deeply for her. God bless her and your family, Megan.....you are in my deepest thoughts and prayers.

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  5. Jim, Jeff and Meagan
    I am deeply saddened to hear that Marian has passed - she was a wonderful person and will be missed by many. I will keep you all in my prayers for the many days ahead of you. She will never be forgotten by me and will be remembered with much fondness.
    Loreen

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  6. Marian was an amazing, funny, compassionate, woman who never failed to put a smile on everyone's face. Her life will be remembered and celebrated in the hearts of all that knew her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this diffictult time.

    Leah and Bob

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  7. Jim, Jeff and Meagan,

    My deepest sympathies to all of you. Although I only had the chance to know your mom briefly her love, kindness, stregnth and laughter was carried in each one of you. You gave her such wonderful gifts of your love and support. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!

    Jill, RN

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  8. Megan - we are so, so sorry for your loss.
    Tim & Amy

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  9. Oh Megan - Sending hugs and love from Milwaukee... Mama Marian will be truly missed and I will be remembering all the good times spent with her years ago. She was an amazing woman.
    Sarah Burleton

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  10. Megan,
    My condolences go out to you, Jeff, and your dad. It has been a long treacherous road for you and I hope that you can find some peace as your Mama Marian now has. I have lots of good memories of her from when we were younger and I used to come over to your house.
    Julie

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  11. Jim, Megan & Jeff,
    I wanted to say thank you to all of you for your warmth and compassion during the most difficult time in your life. I wanted to say thank you to all of you for letting me in yesterday to have a moment with her, that ment the world to me and I thank you so much. I hope you all find some comfort in the coming days knowing the angels have taken her home and she is a free soul again. She will be missed dearly and will always be loved. You are a remarkable family and my prayers are with you all.
    Thank you again so very much,
    Jodi McKay

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  12. Jim, Megan and Jeff and all your families, I am flooded with memories of the four of us high school girls...all the awkwardness of figuring out where our lives would go and who would be in our lives. And then the memories of our magical weekend in New York..just us girls..in January 2008. Look what became of "Hodder"! What a family she and Jim created, so much love, what an impact she had on others, how her legacy lives on and even though it was "too short", I can't help but think that if, back in 1969, we could have forseen the fullness of her life, it would have seemed good to all us young girls. My prayers are with you all. Love, Kathy Franz

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  13. Dear Megan, my sincerest sympathy on the loss of your beloved mom. I had the pleasure of visiting w/her at your Aunt Jenna's. She was smart and funny and thoroughly engaging. And very current on topical issues. My heart goes out to you, your brother, dad Jim, Mr & Mrs Strange, Mike and Jenna. Your blog is amazing and a beautiful tribute to a lovely woman. I know she's beaming! I wish you peace. Patty Novia, Derry, NH

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  14. I remember when we were in Chincoteague the summer after our senior year. Six girls plus Mama Marian in a minivan. All us girls ran out of money by the end of the trip and as we were getting ready to leave she sat us down and gave each of us a Chincoteague lighthouse Christmas ornament to remember the trip by. I think of Mama Marian and her thoughtfulness every year as we decorate our tree.
    It was an honor to know Mama Marian. She was a mother to so many.
    Prayers and all my love to the family.
    Jocelyn Fillian Dore

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  15. Megan, Jim and Jeff,your Mom and wife was a very funny, and engaging women...her life was cut much to short. Memories will forever be yours...hold onto and cherish them...Linda Miller

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  16. Jeff and Megan,

    I'm so sorry to hear about your Mom. I have great memories of times at your house and I can only imagine how proud she is of you both.

    Best,
    Brian Barlow

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  17. Love you sweetie! You and your family are in my thoughts. Please let me know if I can do anything. I'm so sorry.

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  18. Dear Megan,

    I am so sorry about your mom. Your blog is such a beautiful tribute to your mother and your entire family. I am your Uncle Mike D.'s sister, and I haven't seen you for a long time, but I see that your mother and father raised one very amazing daughter! I so enjoyed spending time with your mother at family gatherings. She had such an interesting and lively mind, and always took an interest in what other people thought too. I'm going to miss her. I met your dad when he was a young teenager,and he was a sweetie even then. I know how much you have helped him through this difficult year.He must be very proud of you. Sending you and the family love, warm hugs,and prayers.
    Love,
    Anne Dolen

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  19. Megan, I am so sorry about your mothers passing. Tell your family you are in our prayers. I will let my side of the Hodder family know. Please keep in touch.
    Mary Alice Hodder Bushey, Tucson, Arizona

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